For the past day and a half I've been texting a girl somewhere in the south who I believed to be my sister, never realizing I've accidentally been using an old cell phone number. Early this morning I receive a text that says who is this?
I write back as if she's the foolish one, Jennifer your sister.
Minutes later she writes back, This is Sheena. I don't have any sisters.
I immediately apologize and she quickly texts, It's cool chick.
I laugh. Part of me wants to keep texting her. But, a cool chick probably wouldn't do that.
It reminds me of last week when the house was quiet, like being at a funeral. I tried to read, but found it distracting that no one else was around to say anything. The phone rang. I grabbed it as if snatching coins from a winning slot machine. I didn't recognize the out-of-state number and told myself to let it go. Not willing to miss my chance to talk to another adult I picked up on the fourth ring as if Oprah were calling.
"Hi, is Diana there?" the male voice asked with a thick Latin accent.
"No, you must have the wrong number," I said. But, I'll talk to you anyway, I wanted to add before hanging up.
I met another single parent recently who agreed that one of the most challenging parts of being alone is the silence. He bought a Cockatiel to whistle to when he comes home at night.
I don't want a bird or a dog or a cat. We have a fish which I don't think counts.
Maybe I should text Sheena, the girl without any sisters, and see what she would do.

Set your own life time more simple take the personal loans and all you want.
Posted by: JannieReynolds29 | August 05, 2011 at 08:59 AM
That is something I would do. I'm so sorry about the loss of your husband. I just saw your story on
Posted by: Lelia Chealey | September 13, 2009 at 03:26 PM
LOL that's too funny Jen- about the texting. Never know! You might have made a new friend who needs you! ;-) I TOTALLLY understand about wanting to talk to anohter adult!! I am the same way! I don't get out much. If you EVER want someone to chat with, CALL ME!!! :-)
Posted by: Tara | September 06, 2009 at 11:44 AM